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5 Tips for Purchasing the Perfect Strap-On Dildo: Guide for Strap-On Shopping

5 Tips for Purchasing the Perfect Strap-On Dildo: Guide for Strap-On Shopping

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Strap-ons are a great way of introducing something new to your sex life. However, many may feel intimidated by the idea, mainly from a self-conscious aspect or lack of knowledge and experience. But as with anything else, there is a learning curve with strap-ons, and once you nail it down, a world of exploration and excitement awaits.

The first thing is to find the right strap-on for you and your partner. With models ranging from hollow strap-ons to harness kits, your choices may seem overwhelming. Luckily, this guide will assist you in navigating the different types of strap-ons, and we’ll give top tips to ensure you select the perfect strap-on.

Strap-On Types

Before we dig into our tips for purchasing the perfect strap-on, it’s important to get familiar with the types of strap-ons. Each has a different intended use, so you must choose according to your needs and wants. Here are the choices you’ll encounter:

Strap-on harness kits: Perfect for beginners, these models feature a wearable harness and a dildo with varying sizes.

  • Realistic strap-ons: These strap-ons are a great option for those who want a touch of realism. The dildo usually comes with realistic veins, a curved shaft, and a tapered tip, mimicking the look and feel of a real penis.
  • Hollow strap-ons: Primarily made for men experiencing erectile difficulties, these strap-ons feature a hollow dildo worn over the penis. They are also great for those that want to add a few extra inches to their penis.
  • Pegging strap-ons: Specially crafted for anal play, these strap-ons typically feature narrow, tapered dildos for targeted prostate stimulation.
  • Strapless strap-ons: Ideal for simultaneous pleasure, these strap-ons feature dildos on both ends, allowing partners to share the strap-on at the same time. Strapless strap-ons are an example of double-ended strap-ons.
  • Double penetration strap-ons: Designed specifically for dual penetration, these strap-ons feature two dildos, typically positioned one atop the other, enabling you to use them to penetrate the vagina and anus simultaneously.
  • Vibrating strap-ons: These strap-ons add an element of excitement by introducing vibrations into your play. They typically have a pocket where you can fit a bullet vibrator or have built-in vibrating functions.

Top Tips for Purchasing a Quality Strap-On Dildo

Getting the right strap-on dildo involves a bit of thought to make sure the experience is not just good but downright satisfying. Here are some key things to keep in mind:

Size & Shape

Not all strap-ons can accommodate different body shapes, so double-check whether the straps adjust to your body measurements. A well-fitted and adjustable harness is essential for comfort and stability during use. Straps with buckles or Velcro closures provide customization options for various body types, allowing you to achieve the perfect fit.

Furthermore, check the length and width of the straps, ensuring they are suitable for your body proportions. The goal is to find a strap-on that will provide a snug fit, ensuring it stays in place during use.

The size and shape of the dildo are vital for the whole experience. For size, analyze the length and girth of the dildo while keeping in mind your personal preferences. If you are a beginner, start small and work your way up.
When looking at the shape, consider what you want to use the strap-on for and how you want the dildo to look. For instance, realistic dildos mimic the appearance of a real penis, creating a more lifelike experience. Curved dildos target specific pleasure points, like the G-spot or P-spot..

Material

When analyzing the materials of your strap-on, you should consider the two parts: the harness material, and the material of the strap-on dildo.

There are several common options for the harness material: nylon, silicone, and fabric. They are lightweight and comfortable during extended wear while providing flexibility that allows free movement.

For those who want adaptability and stretchiness, elastic harnesses can easily accommodate different body shapes but may not offer the stability of other materials. Leather is another popular strap-on material, offering a visually appealing design and a sturdy feel. Its vegan counterpart is also a favorite among those who prefer more ethically-made options.

Be extra careful when you’re looking at the dildo material, as it should be a body-safe material. Silicone is usually the superstar dildo material – body-safe, non-porous, and feels like the real deal. It's also easy to clean and pairs with water-based lubes. TPE/TPR is a bit softer and more flexible, but it's also porous, so you would need to clean it extra carefully. Similarly, PVC is a budget-friendly alternative but needs a little extra love in the cleaning area and is not as flexible as the other materials.

Features

To personalize and enhance your experience, consider strap-ons with additional features. These can range from simple utility additions to functionality and features that enhance your sexual experience.

For instance, interchangeable O-rings on the strap-on allow for customization and accommodating dildos of varying sizes. Many have quick-release snaps or buckles to add convenience, allowing you to easily remove the strap-on after each use.
Some models have dildos with a flared base for added safety during anal play. Others have small pockets where you can insert a bullet vibrator or dildos with vibrating functions, allowing you to experience extra stimulation.

Ease of Use

Nobody wants a complex strap-on setup that takes ages to put on and take off, so before buying one, make sure it’s adjustable to avoid struggling during use.
Check out the harness – different options have varying comfort levels and aesthetic appeal. Jockstrap-style harnesses have an open-back design and straps that go around your thighs, offering a secure fit and freedom of movement.

For those who prioritize comfort, panty-style harnesses resemble regular panties with a hole for the dildo in the front. G-string-style harnesses offer a lightweight alternative with minimal coverage and a thin strap between the buttocks, encouraging skin-to-skin contact and intimate connection between partners.

Boxer brief-style harnesses combine the stability of harnesses with the familiar feel of underwear, with wider waistbands and thigh straps that provide additional support.

Budget

When budgeting, consider the price of materials and additional features you would like to have. It's about making a wise investment – ensuring your strap-on matches your budget without compromising the experience.

For those with a tighter budget, expect basic materials like nylon for the harness and simpler designs. You will find dildos with less fancy materials like rubber or PVC, which are not as durable or comfy.

Things get better in the mid-range budget. Harnesses often use improved materials like neoprene, making them more adjustable and stable. Dildos in this range are usually made from higher-grade materials like silicone or ABS plastic, making them more comfortable and durable. You also get more options for harness styles, and some might have cool features like interchangeable O-rings.

If you're willing to spend more, you can find strap-ons made from fancy materials like leather, ensuring they're super comfy and long-lasting. Dildos also reach top-tier quality with high-grade silicone, glass, or even stainless steel options. In most models in this price range, additional features like vibrations and remote controls will be found.

While your budget should be a guiding point, it should never be the deciding factor when choosing a strap-on. Always prioritize quality over price, especially with items that may affect your sexual health.

The Bottom Line

Whether you're a curious beginner or an experienced sex toy user, strap-ons can be an exciting adventure in your sex life. Embrace curiosity, communicate openly with your partner, and remember, there's no one-size-fits-all approach. Take time to explore the different types, sizes, and features of strap-ons, and most importantly, prioritize your comfort and pleasure.

The world of strap-ons offers endless possibilities, and we believe everyone can find their perfect match. Click here to explore our selection of strap-ons and find more exciting options!

FAQs

Can a man and a woman use a strap-on?

Absolutely. Strap-ons are versatile sex toys that break the traditional boundaries of sex. All individuals can use them, regardless of their gender.

What is the best lube for strap-on dildos?

The ideal lube for strap-on dildos depends on the dildo material, but for most, it’s water-based. Water-based lubricants provide a smooth and slippery texture without compromising the integrity of the dildo or the harness. They are compatible with most materials, including silicone.

Can we use a strap-on for pegging?

Definitely, strap-ons are widely used for pegging, the act of a woman using a strap-on to penetrate a man anally.

How to clean a strap-on?

The cleaning method depends on the material. You can clean non-porous materials like silicone, stainless steel, or glass with mild soap and warm water, but porous materials like TPE/TPR or PVC require cleaning with a dedicated sex toy cleaner. Clean the strap-on thoroughly, especially around the harness and crevices. Remember to remove the dildo from the harness before cleaning and take off any bullet vibrators before washing it.

Where to store my strap-on dildo?

Store your strap-on dildo in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight. Keep it in its original packaging or a breathable fabric bag if possible. Ensure it's stored separately from other sex toys to prevent any potential material reactions. If the dildo is detachable from the harness, storing it separately is a better option.

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